Proper Initiation: Hurdles to Overcome for Fiery Sex

Proper Initiation: Hurdles to Overcome for Fiery Sex

Couples on the topic of sex: “My partner never initiates.” or “My partner always initiates.” I hear these common complaints when I talk with couples individually (before meeting them together) during couples coaching. Next to frequency, sex...
Power and Control: Who Steers the Wheel

Power and Control: Who Steers the Wheel

Who has the most power in your relationship? If you encounter this question in a couples therapy session on who wields more power and influence, what would you say (to me, not to your partner)?. Some couples both say “I do”. Others point to each other. Some say “both”...
Relationship Therapist: Social NOT Emotional Distancing

Relationship Therapist: Social NOT Emotional Distancing

“I’ll bet your practice is really busy with all these couples stuck in the house with each other.” – It’s one of the most frequent comments I hear as a relationship therapist these days. It’s basically the same with most intimacy...